Physical love doll, is it a toy for adults or a human companion? Can it replace the real person emotionally? Does its existence have any impact on the reality of intimacy? Many people have many questions when they learn about sex dolls.
In fact, the cost of buying a doll is not low. For example, a TPE material Irontech Doll costs more than a thousand dollars, and this price will be doubled if it is made of silicone.And the longest life span of a doll is perhaps only 4-5 years. What its buyers need more than anything else is a dedicated human companion, with more psychological needs than physical needs. Most people have an impression of physical doll buyers as geeks, withdrawn, people who can't find a partner. But according to industry manufacturers, more than 30% of buyers are partners, families, couples without children, the doll as a child to raise; elderly widowed, will also find spiritual support through the doll.
Compromise With Reality
In China, there is a circle of doll buyers. Like other hobby communities, people share their experiences and fun on forums, meeting friends with dolls and also coming out to socialize. Beijinger Zhang Bo said, "We usually get together and put our respective dolls on the sofa, but also talk about life, housing prices, prices and the state of the country." Zhang Bo, 36 years old, used to be a handicraft planning, in the SHEDOLL he has, there are three with names, there are also three that have not yet planned the role. According to him, he has never had sex with these dolls, and has been raising them as children. His "doll age" has been more than ten years, in his house, filled with dolls and related products, like artwork on display. Zhang Bo's interest in dolls, the earliest from the "restless hormones" in college, when this energy has passed, but also gradually let go. He made a girlfriend, because of his girlfriend, he sent the doll back to his hometown, hoping to have a serious relationship. It wasn't until he was 31 that he broke up with his girlfriend of three years who he had been in a serious relationship with. "The severity was a bit like a divorce, tossing the heart out." Zhang Bo still feels sad when he remembers that experience. This failed relationship made him become more honest with himself, regained his love for silicone head TPE body sex doll, and found a new purpose in life. When his family found out, they couldn't stand it at first and looked at the thing like it was a demon. In their eyes, the dolls are the same as gambling, games, "the source of evil" that makes people waste their studies and do not do their jobs. But Zhang Bo is trying to change them, want to use it as a new start in life. Playing with love dolls is more of a spiritual thing, the process of the doll companionship recorded, shared in the circle, to get recognition, applause, emphasizing that they are not alien, it turns out that they are not alone.
In the relatively closed-minded China, people are not very acceptable to fall in love with sex dolls, but in Europe and the United States there are many examples of marriage with physical dolls. Marrying a sex doll requires understanding whether it is suitable for you and whether it makes life comfortable and easy. Maybe after a few years, awareness, thought growth, will understand that after all, you still have to have a flesh and blood person, learn to get along with people and live life together. But even if you can't get out, it doesn't matter, there are dolls with you, you can stay in that wonderful world for the rest of your life and never have to accept the reality of the set.
What Is The Use Of Love Dolls?
Life is lonely, lovers, friends, family will eventually leave, but the doll will not die. Traveling Korean artist June Korea, he shot a set of "Eva" photo book, the entity doll in which is his fantasy sex doll girlfriend, they eat, sleep, travel together, and the real couple is no different. He has been photographing physical dolls since 2002 and became interested in them because he was moved to loneliness. In the city of lights, loneliness strikes like a flood when you wake up alone every day, go home alone after parties and work, or stand in a crowd. Once we thought that our home and friends would never leave us, and that the good memories would never disappear, but when we grow up, we will find that we will lose them eventually. It is always said that art comes from life. During June's study in the United States, he experienced the tragedy of breaking up with his girlfriend, and at that time he had the idea of giving the physical doll an identity, using it as a fantasy girlfriend and shooting it as a photography work. People will leave, but the doll will not die, and if all this is recorded in the fantasy world, it becomes eternal. The whole photography collection of the shooting cycle in about 2 years, he shot intensively, almost every day with the doll as a companion, together to do what couples do, together to let out a laugh, let out a cry, together to feel happy, but also feel lonely. Foreign media are curious about his creation with physical dolls, but the photos are not erotic, but have a sense of indescribable loneliness. Although passers-by would stare at him with strange eyes, and some would even go over to touch Eva, he did not care. After his photo exhibition was held perfectly, he returned from the US to Korea as a teacher, and Eva was unpacked and sent back home. But he was looking forward to it and was thinking about his next collaboration with his "fantasy girlfriend". He knew in his heart that the relationship was a sham and that the loneliness of being born as a human being was a reality that he could not escape. But as long as he needs, the Tayu Doll will always be with him and will not leave.
